Sermon for Reformation Sunday – October 27, 2024

by Jeffrey Spencer | Oct 28, 2024 | Sermons

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Sermon for Reformation Sunday – October 27, 2024

Romans 3:19-28, John 8:31-36

Dear friends, grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ.

If you want to understand what Reformation Sunday is all about, you only need to look at how Martin Luther has been depicted over the centuries. In Lucas Cranach’s Weimar Altarpiece, which was created just a couple of years after Luther’s death, he is depicted pointing to scripture. In the many statues which have popped up over the centuries since, Luther is almost always pointing to scripture. You can find German nutcrackers of Martin Luther, and he is usually either holding a Bible or pointing to scripture. And then there is my Martin Luther bobblehead, which has him…you guessed it – pointing to scripture.

We celebrate Reformation Sunday on the last Sunday in October because it was on All Hallow’s Eve – October 31, 1517 – that Martin Luther posted his 95 Theses on the door of the Castle Church in Wittenberg, which is widely regarded as the spark which started the fire of the Reformation. This is fine as far as it goes, as long as we understand what Luther’s purpose was in posting that document. Luther was not filing for divorce from the Catholic church. He was not quitting the Roman church to start something new. Neither was Luther suggesting some radical new ideas he thought the church should adopt. With these theses, Luther was calling the church back to the Bible. After centuries of drifting away from it, Luther was calling the church back to the Word of God. Luther was calling the church back to the treasures he himself had found in the scriptures.

Luther was not a separatist. Some have said that Reformation Sunday feels to them like one of those grossly inappropriate divorce parties people sometimes have when their divorce is final. They’ve said it feels like we’re celebrating a break-up, the fracturing of the Christian church. I get that to a point, but Luther didn’t leave the church. He was kicked out! He didn’t intend to cause a split. He was excommunicated! And so on Reformation Sunday we are not celebrating a break-up or the forming of new denomination.

Neither was Luther an innovator. He wasn’t inventing anything new, as the radical reformers of the past or progressive theologians of the present are want to do.

Luther was neither a separatist nor an innovator. He was more like an archaeologist. Martin Luther was the theological equivalent of Indiana Jones. At great personal risk to his health and safety, Luther excavated the scriptures to recover the true treasure of the church which had been hidden, or lost, or stolen, or forgotten. In thesis number sixty-two Luther wrote, “The true treasure of the church is the most holy gospel of the glory and grace of God.” Luther worked to recover this treasure so it could be put on public display for everyone to enjoy!

He did this by delving deeply into the Bible. He did it by sweeping away the cobwebs and the dust the church had let accumulate, and by dodging the boobytraps and the poison arrows certain church leaders would soon shoot at him. He did it by bringing the Word of God out of the darkness in which it had been hidden and out into the light. As Luther himself said later in his life as he reflected on the Reformation, “I simply taught, preached, and wrote God’s Word; otherwise I did nothing.  And while I slept or drank Wittenberg beer with my friends Philipp and Amsdorf…. the Word did everything.”

Martin Luther was only doing what our Lord Jesus calls all of us to do in the gospel reading for Reformation Sunday. “If you continue in my word,” Jesus says to us, “you are truly my disciples; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” To be a disciple of Jesus is to continue in his word. It is to be a student of the Bible. It is to gladly hear and learn from the scriptures, holding them as authoritative, as the very word of God.

Scripture is the written word of God, but God doesn’t only give this word to us in book form. God also speaks his word to us as it is preached and proclaimed. God attaches his word to water in Holy Baptism, pouring his grace over us, joining us to Jesus and his saving work. God feeds us his word to us by putting it in bread and wine, the very body and blood of Christ, which we can taste and savor as we are renewed in his forgiveness. These are the treasures of forgiveness, life, and salvation given to us through Jesus Christ! These are the treasures that are to be on display in the church for all to see. These are the treasures that belong to God’s people, the treasures we are called to share with the world. These are the treasures that make people truly free – free from sin, free for a life with God.

Jesus exhorts us to continue in his word because he knows how easy it is for this word to be hidden, or lost, or stolen, or forgotten. This word is sometimes hidden by the church when it starts to focus on other things, particularly when it seeks prestige or popularity or power. It gets lost when the church gets its priorities mixed up, putting the cart before the horse. The word gets stolen when those called to deliver the goods of the gospel instead use their platform to tell you how to become righteous through your works – works which usually bear a striking resemblance to their own projects or agendas.

There has been a buzz on social media in these last frenzied days before the election where some have said, “If your pastor isn’t telling you how to vote in this election, they are cowards.” I don’t actually engage in these debates online, but if I did my response would be that any pastor who sets aside the gospel in order peddle influence or steer people’s votes one way or another is worse than a coward. They have abandoned their post, abused their office, and betrayed Christ.

But it isn’t just church leaders. This word is forgotten when all of us as God’s people forget what the real problem is. The real problem, as St. Paul puts it in our reading from Romans, is that “all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” I did a word study on the Greek word for all here, and it means ALL! All of us are in the same boat! None of us are righteous before God, and no amount of virtue signaling or moral preening can change this fact! The real problem, as Jesus puts it in our gospel reading, is that we are all slaves to sin.

We admit this just about every Sunday when we confess that we are in bondage to sin and cannot free ourselves, but we seem to have a touch of spiritual amnesia from time to time. We are constantly forgetting the real problem! We are like those in the gospel reading who thought they were fine, who thought they didn’t need any help, who thought they didn’t need saving, that they didn’t need to be set free. “We are descendants of Abraham and have never been slaves to anyone!” they said. Oh really? What about the time they were slaves to the Egyptians, or the Assyrians, or the Babylonians? Or how about the fact that they were arguably currently living as slaves to the Romans? The human capacity for self-deception, for self-justification, for self-righteousness is deep and pervasive – and we are all guilty of it.

God’s word tells us the truth about us. It relentlessly reminds us of the real problem, which is our bondage to sin. But that’s not the real treasure it contains. The accusation of the law is important. It is indeed God’s word to us. But it isn’t God’s last word, and so it is not the real treasure. The real treasure is the Good News of what God has done for us in Christ. As St. Paul writes in our second reading:

“…since all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God; they are now justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, whom God put forward as a sacrifice of atonement by his blood, effective through faith.”

This is the real treasure. We who have fallen short of the glory of God have been justified – brought into right relationship – by his grace as a gift. We have been redeemed by the precious blood of Christ. This is effective through faith, through trust in Christ’s work – not ours.

The real treasure is that the Son has made us free. He has freed us from our bondage to sin. He has freed us from our past regrets and our current brokenness. He has freed us from our fear, from our guilt and our shame and our anxious striving. He has freed us for a new life with him, a life steeped in forgiveness and the mercy of God. He has freed us for a life filled with peace and hope. He has freed us for a future with him that will have no end, a future where we will be freed at last from all suffering and from every lingering sin or struggle.

“If you continue in my word,” Jesus says, “you are truly my disciples; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” That’s the treasure. “If the Son makes you free,” Jesus promises, “you will be free indeed.” That’s the treasure.

Today we commemorate the posting of the 95 Theses, which sparked the Reformation. Today we give thanks for Martin Luther, the theological Indiana Jones who at great personal risk spelunked into the scriptures to bring back to us these treasures to put on display for all of us to enjoy. Above all, today we celebrate the true treasure of the church that is the most holy gospel of the glory and grace of God, which is given to you today through scripture, speech, and sacrament, so that you would be free indeed.

Thanks be to God. Amen.

Rev. Jeffrey R. Spencer

Oak Harbor Lutheran Church

Sermon for the Twenty-Second Sunday after Pentecost – October 20, 2024

by Jeffrey Spencer | Oct 22, 2024 | Sermons

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Sermon for the Twenty-Second Sunday after Pentecost – October 20, 2024

Mark 10:35-45

Dear friends, grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ.

I once went on a quest to discover the roots of my last name. The name “Spencer” has a long history in England, where it originated, and there are some prominent Spencers in British history, so I had high hopes. Perhaps there was some long-lost connection to nobility. Perhaps I was in the blood line of some prominent figure. One of our church members was recently visiting Westminster Abbey, where some of the most exalted figures from England’s past are buried, and he found a pin emblazoned with the Spencer name and the Spencer Coat of Arms in the gift shop, which he brought back for me. The Spencer line is established enough that it has its own Coat of Arms, represented at Westminster Abbey! While it turns out that I don’t appear to be related to any of them, but there are some significant Spencers sprinkled throughout British history.

However, if you go back far enough, if you research the origins of the name, it is not associated with nobility. It does not suggest prominence. In fact, the name means “someone who waits tables.” You see, many English surnames are based on occupations. The Millers were the family who milled flour. The Bakers were the family who baked bread. Well, the Spencers were the family who dispensed things for others. They were, at least originally, the waiters and waitresses in the houses of the nobility. They were servants.

I have to admit I was a little disappointed by this. But then I thought better of it. I thought what better last name for a pastor to have then Spencer! After all, I wait tables for Jesus, don’t I? I wait tables for the King! A pastor’s job is to dispense the gifts of Christ, given in Word and Sacrament. I’m like a Pez dispenser. I lift my head, and the gospel is supposed to come out! This is what it means to be a servant of God’s Word!

I went searching for nobility in the origins of my last name, and I found something better – at least from a biblical perspective. I went searching for prominence and found servanthood instead.

James and John, the sons of Zebedee, went looking for nobility too. In our gospel reading for today we hear them approach Jesus with an audacious request. “Grant us to sit,” they said, “one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory.”

This wasn’t merely a request for a good seat in the Kingdom of God. They weren’t merely asking for a comfy chair up front with a good view. They were looking for positions of nobility. They wanted positions of prominence. The seats they were asking for were a reference to the seating chart in a royal court. To sit at the right or the left of a great earthly king or leader was a privilege reserved for nobility. That’s what James and John were looking for! What they found instead, however, was a call to servanthood.

“You do not know what you are asking,” Jesus said to them. “Are you able to drink the cup that I drink? Are you able to be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized with?” Jesus was referring to his impending suffering and death. He was using common Hebrew euphemisms, or ways of speaking, to describe the overwhelming affliction he would soon face.

You see, Jesus was now on his way to Jerusalem. The throne he would soon occupy would be a cross, where he would give himself up for a sinful humanity. Jesus’ kingdom wouldn’t be about nobility or prominence or power – at least not in the way the world understands those things. Instead, it would be about humbling oneself. It would be about sacrifice. It would be about suffering for the sake of others. It would be about servanthood.

When the other disciples learned that James and John had been trying to jockey themselves into positions of nobility and prominence in Jesus’ kingdom, they got angry! Jesus saw this as a perfect teaching moment. He called them together and explained to them what his kingdom was all about. “You know that among the Gentiles those whom they recognize as their rulers lord it over them, and their great ones are tyrants over them,” he said. “But it is not so among you; whoever wishes to be great among you must be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you must be slave of all. For the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Jesus provides an example of what true greatness, true nobility, looks like in his kingdom, and it is not a matter of elbowing your way into a position of prominence or power.

Jesus’ kingdom isn’t like any earthly kingdom. It isn’t like the monarchies of the ancient world. It isn’t like the feudal system of medieval England. It isn’t like the meritocracy of our own time and place. Greatness in Jesus’ kingdom comes through servanthood. “Whoever wishes to be first among you must be slave of all,” Jesus said.

Jesus calls us to servanthood. He calls us to humble ourselves and to live lives of sacrificial service to others. This servanthood can be expressed in many different ways. It can be practiced in ways big and small. We can be servants to the people around us, caring for them in their time of need. We can be servants to our spouses, to our children, to our families – not seeing them merely as a means to our own happiness, but as people God has given us to serve.

We can be servants in our workplaces, whether that’s milling, or baking, or waiting tables, whether that’s teaching or driving a bus or stocking shelves or maintaining airplanes or homemaking. We can bring a servant’s heart to any number of tasks, whether they are in positions of prominence or in things the world sees as lowly. When it is done in faith and with love, our work – whether paid or unpaid – become an expression of discipleship.

We can be servants to each other as brothers and sisters in Christ here in the church, treating each other with humility and honor and love in spite of our differences. We can be servants of the church, and not just consumers of its goods and services. A paraphrase of JFK might be appropriate here: “Ask not what your church can do for you, but what you can do for your church.”

Jesus is our example in all of this. “For the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve.”

But Jesus is much more than just our example. Before we see him as our example, we must first receive him as our savior. Before we can be his sacrificial servants, we must first grasp his great sacrifice for us.

As Isaiah prophesied in our first reading, “He was wounded for our transgressions, crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the punishment that made us whole, and by his bruises we are healed.”

As Jesus himself said, he came “to give his life as a ransom for many.”

We are imperfect servants, to be sure. But through his sacrifice for us, Jesus has made us part of his noble blood line. Jesus donned the crown of thorns and assumed the throne of his cross, so that we would have complete forgiveness for all our failures as servants. He was raised for us so that we might rise again daily by his grace to walk in newness of life, serving him by serving those around us.

The only human being born of true nobility made himself a servant, humbling himself on the cross so that we could be part of his kingdom forever. He gives us all his name as we are called Christians. Through baptism he adopts us into his holy family, marking us all with his Coat of Arms and making us children of God. He continues to join himself to us through his sacrifice, putting his own precious blood in us, that we would be his own.

Our Lord Jesus continues to serve us with the gift of himself.

And so we willingly and joyfully live in service to him.

Thanks be to God. Amen.

Rev. Jeffrey R. Spencer

Oak Harbor Lutheran Church

Sermon for the Twenty-First Sunday after Pentecost – October 13, 2024

by Jeffrey Spencer | Oct 22, 2024 | Sermons

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Sermon for the Twenty-First Sunday after Pentecost – October 13^th, 2024

Mark 10:17-31

Dear friends, grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ.

The man who ran up to Jesus in our gospel reading this morning had it all. He was wealthy. All his life he had kept the second table of the law, the commandments governing how we treat others, and so he was what people recognize as a good person. In Matthew’s version of this same story, we also learn that he was a ruler, so he had power. He had prestige. Matthew also tells us he was young – so it is probably safe to assume he still had his looks and his health as well. Like I said, this guy had it all.

But he didn’t really have it all, did he? Something was missing in his life. Something was missing, and he went to Jesus to find it. In fact, he ran to Jesus. This was urgent! He knelt before Jesus, showing both his vulnerability and his reverence for Christ. And then came the question: “Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

In spite of “having it all,” there was something he lacked. He lacked peace. In spite of all his earthly blessings, he was still anxious about his relationship with God. In spite of all the outward blessings he enjoyed in life, he lacked the assurance that his eternal future was secure. He lacked hope. He lacked the true joy that comes from a trusting and intimate relationship with the God who created him and who held his future in his hands. And so this outwardly blessed but inwardly anxious man fell at Jesus’ feet and said to him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

“Why do you call me good?” Jesus replied. “No one is good but God alone.” We shouldn’t read too much into this. This isn’t a theological statement about the hypostatic union. This isn’t suggesting that Jesus wasn’t truly the sinless Son of God. What Jesus is doing here is challenging this man’s assumptions. What he is doing is giving the hint of an answer to his question, which is that “goodness” has nothing to do with inheriting eternal life! You don’t earn it. You don’t get in with a good resume. A relationship with God isn’t dependent on your own goodness. If it was, no one would have a relationship with God. This is Jesus’ assessment of humankind: “No one is good but God alone!”

And then, as if to show this man that no one is good but God alone, Jesus started listing off the commandments. “You know the commandments,” Jesus said, “You shall not murder. You shall not commit adultery. You shall not steal or bear false witness or defraud.” And this rich young ruler responded by insisting that he had kept all these commandments since his youth. Check, check, check, and check.

Jesus then looked at this outwardly blessed and inwardly anxious young man, and, St. Mark tells us, he loved him. And so it was out of love that Jesus then zeroed in on his sin. Jesus put his finger on what it was that was getting in the way of this man’s relationship with God. It was his wealth. “Sell what you own,” Jesus says, “give the money to the poor – then come, follow me.” Jesus called his bluff on his keeping of the First Commandment. The First Commandment says, “You shall have no other gods,” and wealth had become his god.

Note well that in telling him to sell everything he owns and give it to the poor, Jesus was not giving this man something to do in order to earn him a place in the kingdom. Jesus was not prescribing a good deed that would finally put him over the top. Jesus was calling his bluff. Jesus was showing him his sin.

This becomes obvious in what happens next. In what is perhaps one of the saddest moments in all of scripture, the man hears what Jesus says, and he turns around and walks away. He just couldn’t give up the wealth which had become his god. “He went away grieving,” St. Mark tells us, “For he had many possessions.”

Jesus then turned to the disciples and said, “How hard it will be for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God.” This declaration caused the disciples to be perplexed. They were confused. You see, going all the way back to Abraham, wealth had been seen as a sign of God’s blessing. In fact, in the popular piety of the day, any good thing that happened in your life was seen as a sign of divine favor.  And this man had it all: he was rich, young, powerful, and apparently, well-behaved! If this guy couldn’t be saved, who could!

Jesus then said that it would be easier for a camel to go through the eye of the needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God. Several years ago, there was an interpretation of this saying of Jesus making its rounds which suggested that there was a place in Israel with a very narrow rock canyon called “the eye of the needle.” Supposedly travelers got their camels stuck in there all the time, but if they unloaded their camels and soaped their sides and made them suck in their guts, and if they pulled on their harness from the front and shoved their butts from behind, they could potentially squeeze their camel through. It was hard, but it wasn’t impossible. This is the “So you’re saying there’s a chance!” interpretation.

But this is exactly the opposite of the point Jesus is making! This is a proverbial saying. It is a proverbial camel and a proverbial needle. It is a like when we say something will happen “when pigs fly,” or that something has “a snowball’s chance in,” well, you know where. What we mean when we say that is, “It ain’t happening!”

The disciples got this. They got what Jesus had just said, and they were shocked by it. They were perplexed. They were greatly astounded. So they asked Jesus, “Who then can be saved?” If the people we always thought of as blessed and good can’t do it, who is getting in? And then Jesus lays it bare. He tells it plain. He says, “With mortals it is impossible.”

But that’s not all he says, is it? Jesus also says, “but with God all things are possible.”

I believe this poor rich man, perhaps more than anyone else in the entire Bible, reflects the spiritual state of our nation, our community, and much of the time, us – you and me. There is a quiet desperation that plagues so many in our decadent culture today. Like this poor rich man so many of us are outwardly blessed but inwardly anxious. Like him we have many possessions, but we are utterly lacking in peace, in hope, and in true joy.

And, as it was for him, this is a First Commandment issue. We stubbornly cling to other gods. That is to say, we look to things other than God to give us peace, hope, and joy. We turn to idols, those things we make more important than God. These idols are often wealth and the pursuit of it, but they can be other things too. They can be any number of the many things that our wealth makes possible. Our idols can be comfort or busy-ness. They can be television or alcohol or food or sports. There is the digital idol we carry around in our pockets, those phones we turn to over and over again for fun and for validation and for the answers to every question we have, letting them shape how we view others and the world around us. Our idols can be our political ideology and our election hopes. A pastor friend of mine recently quipped that, “nothing flushes out peoples’ idols like a close election.” Our idols always come back to us in the form of self-righteousness. We are our own idols, thinking we are good, or at least good enough. Keeping seven out of the Ten Commandments is good enough, right?

But it isn’t good enough. The First Commandment, “You shall have no other gods,” is the granddaddy of them all, and it is the one that trips us all up.

Who then can be saved? For mortals like you and me, it is impossible. Full stop. It will not be our goodness that saves us. It will not be our efforts that help us to gain eternal life. It will not be anything we do. Our Lord Jesus could not be more clear: “For mortals, it is impossible.”

Thankfully Jesus doesn’t stop there. “But not for God,” he says. “For God, all things are possible.”

Dear friends, the impossible has been made possible by God, who sent Jesus to us not just to be our “Good teacher,” but to be our savior. Now the question is not “What must I do to inherit eternal life,” but “What has he done for us?”

The impossible has been made possible by God as Jesus, himself young, himself possessing all the riches of God, himself ruler of all creation, gave up everything for us on the cross, looking upon us with love as he did so, making it possible for us to inherit eternal life with him.

The impossible is made possible today as God moves our hearts to walk towards this savior of ours instead of away from him, receiving what he has done for us through faith.

The impossible is made possible today as God moves our hearts to lay down our idols and to hold those outward blessings more loosely, in order to take hold of the peace and hope and joy only he can give.

Only in him do we truly have it all.

Thanks be to God. Amen.

Rev. Jeffrey R. Spencer

Oak Harbor Lutheran Church

Sermon for the Twentieth Sunday after Pentecost – October 6, 2024

by Jeffrey Spencer | Oct 8, 2024 | Sermons

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Sermon for the Twentieth Sunday after Pentecost – October 6, 2024

Mark 10:2-16

Dear friends, grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ.

Preaching on marriage and divorce is a daunting task. These topics touch on some of the most sensitive and painful aspects of many peoples’ lives. Our texts for today also happen to poke several of the hottest hot button issues raging in our culture today.

For encouragement this week I looked up a sermon of Martin Luther’s on the topic. Surely someone as biblically astute and as graciously pastoral as Martin Luther would know how to tackle these sensitive issues, right? Well, I looked at his most famous marriage sermon, and the first words were, “How I dread preaching on the estate of marriage!” I found it oddly reassuring that even Luther himself approached these topics with a measure of dread! “But,” Luther continued, “timidity is no help in an emergency. I must proceed. I must try to instruct bewildered consciences and take up the matter boldly.”

So, despite the landmines in just about every sentence I am about to speak, let us proceed together boldly, listening to what God’s Word has to teach us today.

The Pharisees asked Jesus about marriage and divorce in an attempt to get him into trouble. Marriage and divorce were hot button issues in Jesus’ time too. In fact, you’ll recall that John the Baptist ended up imprisoned and ultimately executed because he dared to speak out against Herod after he divorced his first wife in order to marry his sister-in-law. There were also debates raging at this time about what exactly the Bible said about when divorce was allowed, with different rabbis lining up on different sides. If the Pharisees could drag Jesus into this debate, perhaps even get him to say something that would get him in trouble with Herod, maybe they wouldn’t have to deal with him anymore. This was the “test” for Jesus.

I think this context is important to note. In his reply, Jesus is not talking to a woman with an abusive husband. He is not talking to a spouse who has been abandoned or discarded for another. I believe Jesus would have had a very different reply for people in those situations. I’ll come back to that in a bit.  The context here is that Jesus is talking to Pharisees who are trying to get him into trouble.

When these Pharisees ask Jesus about his take on the lawfulness of divorce, Jesus turns the question back to them, asking them what the law of Moses says. The Pharisees correctly point out that divorce is allowed in some circumstances. It is indeed there in the book of Deuteronomy that a man can give his wife a certificate of dismissal and divorce her. But Jesus isn’t satisfied with this answer. He wants to go deeper. And so Jesus identifies the root problem causing divorce. Jesus says that it isn’t so much a legal issue as it is a heart issue. The root problem is hearts that are hardened. “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote this commandment for you,” Jesus says.

A hardened heart is a heart that is opposed to God and to God’s will. Pharoah was described as having a hardened heart when he refused to obey God’s command to let his people go. The Greek word here translated as “hardened heart” is sklerocardia, which you might recognize as the root for diagnostic terms used in medicine today, terms like arterial sclerosis or cardiac arrest. These terms are used to describe hearts that are blocked and malfunctioning. Sklerocardia is a spiritual condition wherein the heart has blocked out God’s truth and so is out of beat. One theologian has described sklerocardia in this particular context as “willful blindness to truth and a stubborn refusal to yield to God and his ways for a properly ordered, healthy, and fruitful relationship as shown to us from the beginning of creation.”

And “the beginning of creation” is exactly where Jesus goes next. Jesus quickly moves beyond the finer points of the law of Moses and instead pulls out the blueprints for humankind. Jesus sets aside the already much-debated escape clause for divorce in Deuteronomy and begins a Bible study on Genesis, where God’s original intentions for marriage are made clear.

First Jesus quotes from Genesis 1, saying: “From the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’” Jesus goes back to the beginning, pointing out how God created two distinct but complimentary kinds of humans. They are literally made for each other! Jesus teaches here that gender is given by God and is an essential feature of the created order. Being male or female is bestowed by God, and it is good!

Then Jesus quotes from Genesis 2, saying: “‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh.” Citing Genesis, Jesus describes marriage as the coming together of a man and a woman into an organic oneness. In marriage, these two halves of humanity come together in a unity that will be so close – relationally, spiritually, and physically – that they will be like one person. “So they are no longer two, but one flesh,” Jesus says.

To separate the two is not merely a matter of tearing up a contract, it is more like the tearing of flesh, with all the pain that brings. And so Jesus adds his own word, his own emphasis, saying, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

Citing the very blueprints God has given for humankind, Jesus describes what God’s intentions are for marriage. Two become one flesh. They become a single biological dyad, bound together by vows of love and faithfulness. This holy union will be the foundation of human society. This two becoming one will be the source of all human life.

This is something so beautiful and so essential that every culture across time and place has sought to celebrate it and encourage it and protect it. But at the same time, in a fallen world many hearts have been hardened against it. People railed against this in Jesus’ time, and they rail against it today too.

When I started out in ministry, divorce was the hot button issue. Now, a couple of decades later, just about every word Jesus says as he teaches from Genesis is railed against: from the basic realities of being a man or a woman, to the purpose of marriage, even the number of people a marriage might involve. Nearly every word out of Jesus’ mouth here is now being questioned, or resisted, or rejected entirely in our culture today.

When the Pharisees lured Jesus into this potentially dangerous topic, Jesus was every bit as bold as John the Baptist was. Jesus went right to the original blueprints for humankind in Genesis. Jesus was so insistent on God’s original intent in those blueprints that it shocked even the disciples.

As Jesus’ disciples today, these words are for us. Through this living Word Jesus is now teaching us. Our first reading from Genesis and Jesus’ own citation of it as authoritative are given for our benefit, that we would know the truth about God’s blueprint for the flourishing of humankind. We cannot be followers of Jesus while ignoring or rejecting the truth he so passionately proclaims. As it is, our society is increasingly losing touch with truth, losing touch with reality, certainly losing touch with something that God and his Son both call precious and holy. We dare not lose touch with it too.

At the same time, we cannot let our hearts be hardened towards those who are confused about this truth, and we cannot let our hearts be hardened towards those who have fallen short of it.

As followers of Jesus, we should not only look at what he teaches here when he is tangling with the Pharisees in a debate. We also need to look at how our Lord treated those who, for whatever reason, had fallen short of the blueprint. We need to consider how he treated people in concrete situations.

For example, there was the woman at the well.  She had been married five times, and the man she was currently with was not her husband! And what did Jesus do?

He didn’t condone her situation, but neither did he condemn her. Instead, he offered her living water welling up to eternal life. He offered her a new life in him that would continue forever. He showed her mercy.

When he wasn’t debating Pharisees, Jesus went around the villages and towns healing those who were broken. He went around showing compassion towards those who were suffering from situations beyond their control. He went around forgiving those who had sinned. When it came to concrete situations, Jesus never stopped speaking the truth, but he also never failed to show mercy.

As Christians, we live at this intersection of truth and mercy. If we are going to call ourselves followers of Jesus, we need to keep these two in tension. There are truths given to us from the lips of our Lord that we cannot deny, but they must always be lived out with mercy towards those who don’t understand God’s truth or have fallen short of it. This balance isn’t always easy to find. Sometimes it is hard to know how this takes shape in the various concrete situations that we encounter in life. Fidelity to the truth will draw hard lines in the sand at times, but for followers of Jesus, it must always be done with mercy. It must be done with mercy because our Lord Jesus has had mercy on us.

You see, the truth is, we all have sklerocardia. No matter how successful one may be at marriage, we all have the same spiritual condition. We all have hardened hearts – they are just hardened in different ways, with different symptoms.

We all fall short of the blueprints in one way or another. This is not an excuse to throw them out, but it is a humbling reminder that every one of us, regardless of marital history or marital status, are equally dependent on God’s mercy, which he abundantly provides to all of us through his dear Son.

Marriage is a precious and holy thing. It is not merely a socially constructed human invention. It has been established by the God who created us. As such it is to be celebrated and cherished and guarded and honored. It is to be protected as fiercely as our Lord Jesus sought to protect it.

But as important as it is, there is only one marriage which saves us – and that is the marriage between Christ and his bride, the church. This bride, the church, is made up of people who are married or single, divorced or remarried, widows and widowers. This bride, the church, is made up of people who are sometimes confused or have fallen short in any number of ways. It is made up of people who have been joined to Christ through his mercy.

As Christ’s beloved bride, together our hearts are being healed by a merciful Lord who has joined himself to us forever, a merciful Lord who has promised to never leave nor forsake us, a merciful Lord who loves all of us and will never let us go.

Thanks be to God. Amen.

Rev. Jeffrey R. Spencer

Oak Harbor Lutheran Church