Sermon for the Third Sunday in Lent – March 8, 2026
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Sermon for the Third Sunday in Lent – March 8, 2026
John 4:5-42
Dear friends, grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ.
Nutritionists will tell you that most Americans don’t drink enough water. This is significant because dehydration can impact many different areas of your life. Water helps you digest your food. Water helps your joints stay properly lubricated. Water regulates your body chemistry and your body temperature. Not getting enough water doesn’t just impact a person physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. Even very mild dehydration can lead to crankiness, anxiety, poor memory, or feeling tired. Water trickles through every part of our lives, and when we don’t have enough, it can impact every part of our lives. Our bodies try to fend off dehydration by sending us a signal: We get thirsty.
It was thirst that brought together Jesus and the Samaritan woman who met him at the well. It was about noon, John tells us – the hottest part of the day. Jesus had been traveling on his way back to Galilee from Judea. He was thirsty, and so he made a pit stop in Sychar and stopped at Jacob’s well. The disciples went into town for food while Jesus lingered at the well. When a woman of Samaria came to the well with a bucket in hand, Jesus asked her for a drink.
We need to pause for a moment here to note just how unusual and awkward this scene was. First of all, it was taboo in both Jewish and Samaritan culture for two strangers of the opposite sex to be alone together. We hear the disciples freaking out about this a little later in the story. What is sometimes mocked today as “the Billy Graham rule” was the accepted cultural norm for both Jews and Samaritans.
That’s about the only thing these two cultures agreed on, however. John notes here how Jews didn’t share things in common with Samaritans. Samaritans were regarded as unclean. They were despised by most Jews. There’s a whole lot of history behind this. In a nutshell, Samaritans were seen as traitors to the Jewish people because they had intermarried with the Assyrians. Even worse, they were seen as idolaters because they had adopted many of the Assyrian religious practices, twisting Bible passages to fit their new situation and justify it all. The Samaritans had their temple on Mount Gerizim while the Jews had theirs on the temple mount in Jerusalem, and never the twain shall meet.
So, it was highly unusual and awkward for a Jewish rabbi and a Samaritan woman to be alone and chatting it up at the water cooler! But thirst had brought them together.
Jesus asked the woman for a drink. She was taken aback, for obvious reasons. When Jesus told her that he has living water to give, this sassy Samaritan pointed out that he didn’t even have a bucket. “Where do you get that living water?” she asked. Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.”
Jesus offered her something more than H20. Jesus wasn’t talking about physical thirst at this point. He was talking about something deeper. He was talking about spiritual thirst. “Sir,” she replied, “Give me this water, that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.” She was still thinking about literal water. She was still thinking about her parched throat. She was thinking about how nice it would be to not have to keep making this water run every day. But Jesus put his finger on her deeper thirst, her spiritual dehydration.
“Go, call your husband and come back,” Jesus said to her. “I have no husband,” she replied. “You are right in saying you have no husband,” Jesus continued, “for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband.” Jesus sure can be blunt, can’t he?
It is hard to know the circumstances around why this woman would have had five husbands in her past. We certainly want to be fair to this woman, but we also need to be truthful about what the scriptures say about her. Whatever might have happened with her first five marriages, Jesus notes that the man she is with now is not her husband. There is a strong implication here that she is participating in the intimacies of marriage without the promises of marriage. No matter how common this might be – then or today – it is a violation of the sixth commandment, and she seems to have been a willing participant in it. Later she tells the crowd that Jesus “told me everything I have ever done.” We shouldn’t take away the agency she claims for herself by hastily painting her as a victim. She herself seems to acknowledge that she has done things for which she is not proud. She has also come to the well at a very odd time of day. She came at noon, alone, which strongly suggests she was avoiding the crowds of women who typically went on their water run first thing in the morning, when the sun wasn’t so hot. Maybe she had been ostracized by the community. Maybe she was avoiding the sideways glances and glares from the other women.
That’s a lot of “seems” and “sounds like” and “maybes,” but they add up to the consensus view that this woman has some level of scandal hanging over her, a scandal that Jesus pokes at with his blunt statement about her many husbands and her current living arrangement.
Her response is telling too. She doesn’t want to talk about it! She quickly changes the subject to theology. Jesus doesn’t press the issue. Instead, it is at this point that something truly remarkable happens. As their conversation unfolds, Jesus discloses to her the truth about himself. When she mentions the Messiah, telling Jesus she believes the Messiah will come sort things out in due time, Jesus says to her, “I am he, the one who is speaking to you.” While Jesus has hid this truth about himself from so many others up to this point, he tells this scandal-plagued Samaritan woman who he really is! He tells her that he is the Messiah, the one who has come to save. This is an important part of the conversation, because it shows us that Jesus hasn’t come to condemn her, but to save her. He has come to save her from her spiritually dehydrated life. He has come to bring her water that quenches a deeper thirst, the thirst to worship God in spirit and truth, the thirst to be in right relationship with God through the forgiveness of sins. Jesus has come to give her this water as a gift! He has come to give her living water welling up to eternal life.
When she hears this, she leaves her bucket lying on the ground and goes back to the city. She goes to the very people she had been avoiding. She says to them, “Come and see a man who has told me everything I have ever done! He cannot be the Messiah, can he?” It is posed as a question, but there is a thirst that has clearly been quenched here. As the story ends, we are told that many came to believe because of her testimony. She is part of them once again, as together they came to believe that Jesus is the Messiah, that he is truly the Savior of the world.
We used to have a sweet black lab, and one of the funny memories we have of her is from a time we took her to the beach. She was having a blast splashing around in the water, and then, apparently, she was thirsty, because she stopped and started to drink the salt water. She lapped up about three gulps from Puget Sound before shaking her head and gnashing her teeth at the salty taste. She went back to running around in the water for a few more minutes and then decided to take another drink! It was still salt water, of course, and so she reacted the same way.
We all have a deep spiritual thirst, whether we recognize it or not. And when this thirst becomes chronic, when we become spiritually dehydrated, it impacts every aspect of our lives. It impacts how we think and feel. It impacts our relationships with others. It impacts our relationship with God. It impacts whether we have hope in our lives, whether we have peace.
Oftentimes we try to alleviate this thirst by lapping up salt water – things that seem like they will help but only make the problem worse. We drink from wells that only make us more dehydrated: wells of sin, wells of self-righteousness, worldly wells that promise much but never quench that deeper thirst.
Today our Lord Jesus comes to us through his living word to offer us living water. He comes to invite us to drink deeply of the water he brings in order to quench this deeper thirst. He is not deterred by sin or scandal. He is not put off by your salty mouth. There is nothing about you he doesn’t already know. In fact, that is why he has come – to quench your thirst for forgiveness, your thirst for healing and restoration, your thirst for community, your thirst for a God you can know and love and worship in Spirit and truth. He has come to give you a new life, a life welling up with a hope and a peace and a love that begins to flow into every part of our lives. The water he gives becomes in us a spring of water gushing up to eternal life, and it is given, Jesus says, as a gift.
This water not only hydrates our souls; it also wets our lips, making them ready and eager to tell others what we have experienced here. We too can set down our buckets, refreshed and restored by Christ’s gifts, and go out to tell others about the One who knows everything we have ever done and doesn’t turn away from us, but instead reveals himself to us as Messiah and Savior, giving us living water and a new life.
Thanks be to God. Amen.
Rev. Jeffrey R. Spencer
Oak Harbor Lutheran Church