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Sermon for the Second Sunday in Lent – March 16, 2025
Luke 13:31-35
Dear friends, grace to you and peace from God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ.
It is very difficult to help someone who does not want to receive help. Many of you know how frustrating this can be, painful even. I’ve sat with family members of alcoholics who have offered their loved ones every opportunity to get help, but they are not willing. I’ve talked with parents who desperately want to help their wayward children, but they are not willing. I’ve had conversations with elderly people who still live alone and need more help than they are willing to admit, help that is available, but they are not willing. I know one of the greatest disappointments of our Stephen Ministry leaders is that we have all these Stephen Ministers trained and available to walk with people through any kind of difficulty, but when people who are experiencing those difficulties have been identified and invited to receive their care, they are not willing. Our male Stephen Ministers in particular often sit without care receivers for long periods of time, because even though there are men in need of their care, they are not willing.
My wife and I have some dear friends. We’ve known this couple for almost 30 years. They are from Washington state, but we met in Minnesota, where we started seminary together. Although ministry has taken us to different parts of the country at times, we’ve stayed in touch. We’ve stayed close.
Ministry can be hard on marriages. There are particular challenges and strains that are unique to this calling. They tell us this at the beginning of our seminary education. In fact, Luther Seminary offered marriage care groups to start to get us in the habit of being intentional about caring for our marriages. We invited these friends to come with us, but they were not willing. Years later Amy and I went to a Lutheran Marriage Encounter weekend. We raved about it, and encouraged these friends to go, but they were not willing. Over the years there were times when we saw fissures start to show up in their marriage, little cracks that emerged. When Amy and I went through training and wrote our talks and started leading Marriage Encounter weekends ourselves, we encouraged them to come. They are free for pastors and their spouses! “You’ll at least know us,” I told them. But they were not willing.
Just a couple of weeks ago these dear friends signed divorce papers, ending almost forty years of marriage. I could kind of see it coming, but it still hit me hard. When I told Amy, I couldn’t get the words out without getting choked up. I was not only sad but frustrated. There was an anger even, an anger rooted in love for them. We could have helped you! But you were not willing!
I know this feeling. So do many of you. And Jesus knows it too. “Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often have I desired to gather your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!”
There is a long history behind these words. Jesus was talking to God’s chosen people. God had delivered them out of slavery in Egypt. God fed them in the wilderness. God brought them into the Promised Land. And again and again, they rejected God. They thought they were doing just fine, that they could get by on their own. God sent prophets to them over and over again, offering his help, calling them back, offering to restore them to life and holiness and right relationship. But they were not willing. Again and again God’s prophets, God’s lifelines of help, were rejected, killed even, because the people were not willing to receive this help.
Along came Jesus, the long-promised Messiah, and now they were doing it again. Jesus expressed his frustration with them, his anger even – an anger rooted in love. His only desire was to gather them together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings. He only wanted to help them – but they were not willing.
A few chapters later in the Gospel of Luke, Jesus weeps for Jerusalem. There is a chapel which was built on the spot where Jesus wept. It is called Dominus Flevit, which is Latin for “The Lord wept.” It was built in the shape of a teardrop, and the big windows behind the altar look out over Jerusalem. There is a mosaic in this chapel too. The mosaic at the base of the altar depicts a mother hen with her wings spread out in defense of her chicks.
This is how a mother hen saves her chicks. She saves them by putting herself between them and the threat, by shielding them from danger with her own body. She will do this even if it means she herself will die. It isn’t uncommon to find a chicken coop which has been attacked by racoons or coyotes or foxes and to find the mother hens torn to shreds while the baby chicks are safe inside.
This is how Jesus ultimately saves us too. In our gospel reading for today we hear Jesus refer to what is about to unfold in Jerusalem. When the Pharisees told Jesus to get out of there, warning him that Herod was out to get him, Jesus said, “Go and tell that fox for me, ‘Listen, I am casting out demons and performing cures today and tomorrow, and on the third day I finish my work.’” Jesus then refers to his triumphal entry, saying they won’t see him again until everyone is shouting, “Blessed is the one who comes in the name of the Lord.” These are the shouts of acclamation which will so quickly turn into calls to crucify him.
What lies just ahead is a showdown between the fox and the hen. Jesus will soon hand himself over to the powers of sin and death. Jesus will place himself between the enemy and his beloved chicks. Everyone knows how this story plays out. The hen always gets destroyed by the fox. She bears the fangs and the claws in her body to spare theirs. She dies for her chicks. But in the showdown between this fox and this hen, there is a surprise ending. On the third day, Jesus finishes his work by rising from the dead.
Do you need help? Are there parts of your life you are still refusing to let God help you with? Are there troubles you think you can handle on your own? Are there sins you are unwilling to confess? Are there behaviors you are unwilling to let him help you change? Are there wounds you are unwilling to let him heal, a grudge you continue to nurse, a mistake you won’t let him forgive, a fear you are unable to hand over to him?
Our Lord Jesus wants nothing more than to help you. Our Lord Jesus wants nothing more than to gather you under the shelter of his wings. Are there ways in which you are not willing?
Lent is a season of self-examination and repentance. It is a season in which we are invited to take a long hard look at our lives and to “change our minds” and “change our direction,” which is what the word repentance means. And so I invite you today to think about the ways in which you might be spurning the help God wants to give you.
In Jerusalem, Jesus threw himself into the jaws of the fox. He allowed himself to be chewed up in a brutal crucifixion. He died on the cross, giving up his life in order to save us, his brood.
On the third day he finished his work. He rose again, leaving an empty grave behind. And now his resurrected wings are spread over us, where they eternally protect us from sin and death and every evil.
So take your place under his wings. His help is continually offered to you. This help comes first and foremost through Word and Sacrament, where he graciously and continuously forgives sins and gives us new life. This help comes through the presence of his Holy Spirit, which leads us into lives that are holy and pleasing to God and offers mercy and whenever we stumble, helping us back up.
This help also comes through the wider ministry of the church, which offers guidance through Bible study, care through Stephen Ministers, pastoral counseling through pastors, grief care through compassionate experts like Pastor Laurie, and all kinds of other resources for help in times of need.
The strong wings of the risen Christ are spread wide, that you might find shelter under them. It is under those wings that he will protect you. It is under those wings that he offers forgiveness, life, and salvation. It is under those wings that he offers his help to every part of your life that needs it.
He spreads those healing, helpful, holy wings out for you today. Are you willing?
He is still gathering, still calling, still inviting, still forgiving, still defending his brood. He stands between you and every enemy with his wings stretched wide, saying, “If you want to get to them, you have to go through me.”
It is safe behind those wings. So let him gather you. Let him draw you to himself. Let him help.
Thanks be to God. Amen.
Rev. Jeffrey R. Spencer
Oak Harbor Lutheran Church